Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Marmite v friends. Like or dislike fun

I had to laugh recently. I was chatting to a friend about a mutual friend when suddenly she said 'oh she is like Marmite....some people like her whilst others don't!'" I have to say I agree about this person but as I like Marmite & I also liked our mutual friend it got me thinking.

We brand ourselves by the person we are and the image we portray which is really powerful. People often make an instant judgement within the first few minutes of meeting you, even if they don't know you. We all do it without even realising it. Sometimes we pick up on their energy which isn't congruent with ours and take a dislike to them even if others think they are wonderful. On the other hand we can instantly like someone even though we don't know them because they are on the same vibrational energy as we are. Like attracts like and sometimes I have met people whom I have known instantly are going to be in my life for a very long time. Whereas at other times we have to let other people go whom we don't resonate with anymore.

I used to be a Counsellor so obviously came across people who were going through a negative experience but I really don't surround myself with negative friends or anyone negative any more as they just drain your energy. Have you ever thought about the friends in your life like this?

We all move on as we grow and evolve but I find it sad that we do sometimes judge people before we get to know them. Positive & negative people can change, Sometimes it is just their situation which makes them feel negative but their energy and aura will tell you a lot about them so always follow your gut instinct and reaction when you first meet someone but please don't judge anyone. Everyone has good qualities but we may need to take our time to find them because they are not always apparent.

So for some fun - Who or what do you associate with friends? Are some Andrex puppies, Virgin Air Crew (my favourite adverts), or some one annoying like the twits on 118 118? Many people say to me that every time 'Sheila's Wheels' advert comes on the tele they think of me! (That's OK as they are fun skinny blonde ladies)

Have some fun as you go round the office or home but maybe it may be best to keep quiet - I certainly haven't told my friend she is considered like Marmite!